My wife called me fat last summer. Looked me right in the eye and said, "You're fat."
A little backstory. I once (pre-Pandemic) traveled often, about ½ the time. My health was important to me. I committed to exercising on the road. I tried to eat healthier. In addition, I made no effort to drink less. In fact, I tried to drink more.
During visits home, I frequented my health club which, by the way had not one, not two but three different bars. It also has a wide variety of what could be characterized as exercise equipment. Stuff like treadmills, weights and the like. It also had a nice sauna.
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